You've Heard That It Was Said- Adultery and Divorce

Aug 9, 2026    Joe Brumfield

What does it really mean to be faithful? In this message drawn from Matthew 5 and Matthew 19, we are challenged to move beyond a surface-level, legal understanding of faithfulness and dig into the deeper spiritual reality that Christ calls us toward. Jesus does not simply tell us to avoid adultery as an outward act. He traces the problem all the way back to its root: the condition of the heart. Lust, he tells us, is where adultery begins, long before any outward action takes place. We are invited to examine what we have allowed to take root in our own hearts and minds, and to ask honestly whether we have been feeding desires that were never meant to grow that large. The analogy of a modest family car being modified into something dangerous captures this progression vividly. God gives us natural, appropriate desires, but when we begin adding to them through what we consume and entertain, we can turn something God-given into something destructive. The message is not one of condemnation but of awareness and responsibility. We have more control over the condition of our hearts than we often admit, and that is both a challenge and an encouragement.